Question by CrazyStuff: How do I get my boyfriend to be more sexually into me again?
I'm 16 and he's 17 so you'd think that with his hormones being how they typically are at his age that this wouldn't be a problem. Alas, it is. Ish. When we first started going out he litteraly couldn't keep his hands off of me. It wasn't until 7 months later that we actually started having sex. Now after only about 2 months of the sex, he doesn't seem quite as interested anymore.
I'm not really worried about our relationship as far as everything else goes. He still tells me he loves me all the time and gives me a lot of compliments and always wants to hold me and stuff but just sexually, he isn't as eager as he used to be. And I miss that. Cuz sex is still really new and exciting to me seeing as I only lost my virginity 2 months ago. I guess maybe his hormones are just getting a little less crazy now that he's almost 18 and he's graduating and is probably just thinking about more serious stuff at this point in his life. He does seem a lot more mature.
And I guess in a way I should be happy that he seemed to be connecting with me on a more emotional level lately than physical. That's great, don't get me wrong. But I'm still horny too :P
But how do I make him really hot for me again? :(
Best answer:
Answer by sweetiepie30
I'm going to begin this by asking you to use protection and be safe because you have obviously decided that you are responsible enough and mature enough to have sex.
He's graduating soon and he's going to be moving on with his live whether it's college or a job. This is going to mean a lot of changes for him, and he may be wondering if he wants you to be part of this new adventure he is about to embark on.
There is no magic trick that will make him into you again. The best way to get what you want is to openly tell him what you are thinking. Men definitely aren't mind readers and they REALLY don't get subtle hints. You have to be frank and honest about your feelings. Ask him if something is bothering him and making him less eager to have sex.
If he says nothing is wrong, ask him if something has changed that is making him want sex less, or if there is something you can do to make it better for him. Ask him to share his needs with you.
Sex is a very mature thing, it's not just about pleasure, but about accepting the other person and their desires and understanding them...and even having an open enough mind to practice them. You need to have a grown up talk about what you need sexually in this relationship and ask him what he needs. Talking this out and understanding each other sexually will solve this problem, if sex is the only problem in the relationship. He will respect you and like that you are eager to satisfy him.
Most importantly you need to lay out your needs in the relationship. If you want sex frequently you should tell him, or you should try to initiate. He may be worried that he is pushing you too much.
Good Luck! Hope everything works out!
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